30 random things I’ve learned (or continue to learn 🤦🏼♀️) in 30 years in no particular order. 1. Life is hard. 2. Most of the time, there is more than one right way to do things. 3. The ocean is a place where everything is ok. 4. While excessive spending is not good, extreme saving will not make you happy or solve your problems. 5. Do not waste your singleness by having a one track find-a-spouse mind. DO something with your life that matters. 6. Try stuff. Don’t be a chicken. 7. Experiences > stuff. 8. Individual suffering is a soul refining process. 9. Achievements are not as measurable as American culture would have you think. 10. Suffering will either push you away from God or push you towards God, your choice. 11. Suffering as a family can either push you apart or knit you together, your choice. 12. When “they” say something, DO YOUR RESEARCH. Too many things are not as they appear or as people would like you to believe. 13. Believe your people even when you can’t see it. Abu